Friday, January 7, 2022

Happy Birthday - Celebrate the Good and Respect the Bad


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Written by Erik, January 6, 2014 


For me, being an almost-20-year-old seems like a pretty good accomplishment. 

The age you are right now? That's a milestone. No matter if you are 50, 34, 80, or 11. Life is full of milestones, some good and some bad. We should celebrate the good and respect the bad.


My milestones:
  • 4 years ago I was diagnosed with cancer
  • A year and a half ago I graduated high school
  • When I
    • walked for the first time
    • rode a bike for the first time
    • talked for the first time
    • traveled across the country without Mom and Dad
    • went outside the United States
    • moved out on my own
In the eyes of someone whose perspective has changed due to cancer as a teenager: EVERY DAY is a milestone. Every day that I open up my eyes and look out of my window at the sunny world, it's an accomplishment. Every time I show up to work and make a guest's stay at the hotel that much better, it's worth it.

In the eyes of someone who is writing a blog post that you are currently reading, I say to you: Celebrate your life. It's full of milestones and full of good days! Your life is full of accomplishments, so celebrate good times! (Come on!)

Keep running!






 

Tuesday, December 7, 2021

Blessings of Holding to the Rod

 

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Written by Erik, March 2013

Stake Conference talk- March 17, 2013- Blessings of holding to the rod

 INTRO:

·         Joke about being on TV

·         Tell my story, update on how I’m doing, etc.

 

WHAT IS THE ROD?

·         Story of the tree of life

·         What it represents, the tree and fruit is eternal life, great and spacious building is the pride of the world, river is depths of hell, and the iron rod is the word of god

·         The Iron Rod, Hymns no. 274

3          And when temptation’s pow’r is nigh,

Our pathway clouded o’er

Upon the rod we can rely,

And heaven’s aid implore

            4          And, hand o’er hand, the rod along,

                        Through each succeeding day

                        With earnest prayer and hopeful song,

                        We’ll still pursue our way

            5          Afar we see the golden rest

                        To which the rod will guide

                        Where, with the angels bright and blest,

                        Forever we’ll abide.

CHORUS          Hold to the rod, the iron rod;

                        ‘Tis strong, and bright, and true.

                        The iron rod is the word of God;

                        ‘Twill safely guide us through.

·         Personal experience about how the rod has blessed my life- reading the scriptures daily

 

HOW DO WE FOLLOW IT?

·         Praying

·         Reading scriptures

·         Paying attention in church

·         YSA Stake Theme: Galations 6:7-9

 

BLESSINGS THAT COME

·         “If you hold to the rod, you can feel your way forward with the gift of the Holy Ghost. … Grasp the iron rod, and do not let go. Through the power of the Holy Ghost, you can feel your way through life.” –Boyd K. Packer

·         You will gain the right perspective that your life needs to have- personal story

·         Holding to the rod, especially during trials, will not define you, but refine you

·         Look up!

·         Progression- I have felt progression in my life, especially through these last surgeries

·         Blessings of:

o   Temple

o   Priesthood

o   Family

o   Friends

o   Mission

§  At 18 yrs old, Sid Going was a rugby player, and a shoe-in for New Zealand’s national rugby team. However, he decided to serve a mission before playing rugby.

§  When he came home, he became one of the greatest halfbacks in the All-Blacks league

§  Training and games would be scheduled around Sunday so that Sid could play

§  The Queen of England even recognized him

§  “The blessing of bringing others into the gospel far outweighs anything you will ever sacrifice.”

o   Having the spirit to be with us

·         We are never alone:

o   Cancer diagnosis- life was going good last fall

o   Feeling of peace during the half marathon

o   Read Footprints in the sand POEM







Sunday, November 7, 2021

I'm grateful

 

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Written by Erik, December 2016


Sometimes it's easy to think "Why was I given this trial?" But I've learned that I should be grateful... which may not make sense: I'm grateful that God loves me enough to give me these trials. I'm grateful that He wants to test me... to see how I can learn and grow from this. Hopefully to one day become just like him.

Heavenly Father loves us so much. He cares about everything we will ever go through. His son, our brother, Jesus Christ performed the Atonement so that we never have to feel anything alone. He will help us and lift us up when we need it. 

My favorite scripture is Isaiah 40:31... "But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint." 

However detrimental my trials may be, God is there. And one day I'll get to look into my Savior's eyes and say, "Thank you... I couldn't have done it without you." And that is what keeps me going.